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Name | Date of Birth, Place | Date of Death, Place | Married - date and to whom | # children | ||||||
1. Wilhelm Freidrich (photo) | 7/23/1873 Waterloo, IA | 7/14/1874 Waterloo, IA | n/a | 0 | ||||||
2. Carolina Paulina Louisa | 2/14/1879 Waterloo, IA | 7/23/1880 Waterloo, IA | n/a | 0 | ||||||
3. Louise "Lulu" Marie | 6/11/1885 Sioux City, IA | 1/16/1963 Manning, IA | 5/18/1904 Jens Sinn, Waterloo IA | 7 | ||||||
6/9/1887 Sioux City, IA | 3/6/1915, Oelwein, IA | 12/25/1905 George Dankenbring | 3
5. Elmer Herman Heinrich (photo) 12/10/1902 Waterloo, IA 7/19/2004, Cedar Rapids, IA 8/7/1929 Jeanette Anna Happel 2
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| Alma and Lulu Widmann |
Elmer’s birth parents, Lois Miller and Albert Stolt, were married just three months before his birth. Embarrassed by their circumstances, the story is they decided to hide the pregnancy (she drank copious amounts of quinine to attempt to self-abort) and when that didn't work, they decided to give the child up for adoption rather than risk public scorn. The hospital nurse took Elmer to the Lutheran Church, to be sent to the Lutheran orphanage in Fort Dodge. The orphanage was full; the pastor asked William and Elizabeth to care for the one-day old baby temporarily. Perhaps reminded of the son they had lost over 28 years earlier, William and Elizabeth immediately fell in love with the baby, adopted him and baptised him at the Immanuel Lutheran Church on January 4, 1903. They had not planned to tell Elmer he was adopted, but when he was 12 years old Lulu's insisted; Lulu had not thought the adoption was a good idea -- she had considered her parents too old for her, so I can imagine how she felt 17 years later when they decided to be parents again at age 50! Perhaps this is why sister Alma but not Lulu was listed on the baptism record. Elmer knew who his birth-parents were, but never spoke to them although they all lived in Waterloo, and he even delivered newspapers to his birth-father's office! His birth-parents went on to have another son and a daughter, who never knew of their brother Elmer (census: 1910?, 1920, 1930). In 2001 he contacted his sister-in-law, and although shocked, she and her family were able to verify the story and met with Elmer several times before his death, including his 100th birthday party in 2002 in Sun City, Arizona (DL also attended, with son).
Elmer had traveled to Gossfelden and was warmly received by his mother's Krieger relatives, who took a favorite picture of their home off their wall to give to him.
Obituary: Rev. Elmer H. Widmann -- The Rev. Elmer H. Widmann, 101, died at Mercy Medical Center, Cedar Rapids, Iowa, Monday, July 19, 2004 after a brief illness. Memorial services were held Saturday, July 24, at Trinity Lutheran Church by the Revs. Jonathan Offt and Parker Knoll. Burial was in Newhall Lutheran Cemetery, Newhall. Survivors include a son, the Rev. Richard (Eileen) Widmann of San Diego, Calif.; a daughter, Dorothy (Edward) Statton of Cedar Rapids, Iowa; five grandchildren, Jeanette (Terry) Marks of Oregon, Rachel (Joel) Wohfeil and Mary (Steven) Rochester, all of San Diego, Major Jonathan (Mara) Widmann of San Antonio, Texas, and Faith (LCDR Mark) Lakamp of Ramona, Calif.; 17 great- grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild and a niece, Jan (Will) Jorgenson. He was preceded in death by his parents, and his wife, Jeanette, in 1938. Elmer was born Dec. 10, 1902 in Waterloo, Iowa the son of William and Elizabeth Krueger Widmann. He married Jeanette A. Happel on Aug. 9, 1929 in Vinton, Iowa. Elmer was a graduate of Concordia College in St. Paul, Minn., and Concordia Theological Seminary, in St. Louis. Mo. and was the last living graduate from the class of 1928. Elmer served his pastorates in St. Louis, Mo., Iona, Minn., Ute, Iowa, Ogden, Iowa, formerly, Trinity Lutheran Church in Cedar Rapids from 1948- 1959, Ventura, Iowa and Hampton, Iowa. He was very dedicated to serving God and the Lutheran Churches he served in. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends. Memorials may be made to Trinity Lutheran Church or the International Lutheran Hour. Turner West Funeral Home in charge of arrangements. A message, tribute, or memorial to the family may be left on the funeral home web page, www.turnerfunerals.com under Obituaries.
1873-1902 directory listings for Widmann in Waterloo and Sioux City.